So, what did I do??? Did I embrace it, hide it or ignore it?
I ignored it.
Just kidding, that
would have been a pretty lame story (although it would have been shorter to
write).
I decided to suck it
up and take failure as feedback. Easier said than done. I don't know about you,
but talking about my personal failures is hard and I don't like doing it.
However, I embraced my new-found role as the driver of the struggle bus. I emailed
the group, admitted that I led the meeting poorly and provided them with a
revised path going forward. What came next really surprised me. This e-mail
actually helped to change my frustration and embarrassment into motivation. I
could freely talk about the failure and figure out the reasons things went
south. I don't have all the answers to why ending up on the struggle bus
happened. I am confident that the team will be in a better position to start
talking about it now that it is out in the open though. We also have a better chance
of being successful in the future.
So my advice to you
is the same advice I gave myself: ask the tough questions and ask for feedback
about the things you are leading. Also, call it like you see it. If it is going
great -- awesome. If it is a struggle bus -- call it a struggle bus. I think it
will help you to engage the team and make changes that will help all of you be
more successful in the future.
Embracing your
failures is leading the Interstates Way!!! And here's another Paul Harvey quote to wrap things up, "And
that…is the rest of the story. Good Day."
Continue Leading the Interstates Way!
Scott Peterson
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