This
week's post was written by Doug Post.
No core value has generated more discussion and
a wider range of opinions at Interstates than family. So let's start by aligning around Interstates'
definition:
"Family focuses on building a strong sense
of community at work and at home. At work, our team is a family – we learn and
grow together, building strong relationships and a support network with each
other. At home, we encourage our employees to keep their families a priority –
making time for them and strengthening these relationships."
When we recently surveyed a number of our employees
on their definition of work family
and nuclear family, it was striking to see the frequency of common terms
showing up in both definitions. Terms like care, support, openness, trust, and
respect for each other.
As servant leaders we are responsible to provide
opportunities for our people. This includes building and maintaining a culture
where we can thrive at work and thrive at home. A culture where work-life
balance is a priority and where the family definitions just shared are held
dear.
To lead with family, we need to forgo some of the rigid rules and structure
of a typical work week. It is important
to recognize traditional work-life balance assumptions do not apply to all. For example, to our traveling employees and to today's typical millennial (if
there is such a person). So let's actively lead by asking ourselves questions
like the following:
·
Jennie just committed to
a personally demanding client requirement, how can I take something off of her
plate?
·
Since I ask Bill to
travel regularly, how do I ensure he has plenty of family time/personal
flexibility when he's not travelling?
·
Am I leading assertively
when I notice our family core value is not being lived out at work?
·
Am I helping others
focus and say no in effective, productive ways?
·
Does my team embrace
differing views on work-life balance?
·
Do my employees know
their family time is a priority for me? Are they willing to share work-life
balance concerns with me?
What other family related questions would you add to the list above?
With differing business units, field and office
employees, personal schedules and varied viewpoints, this isn't a cut and dried
topic. And work-life balance is
not easy. It isn't self-correcting. You need to be aware of your imbalances and
monitor to ensure you are keeping your work-life balanced in your own life and
help ensure that for your team as well.
Additionally, healthy home-lives support a
healthy employee at work. Strained relationships distract and cause one to lose
focus. I encourage you to nurture relationships both at home and work. Building
relationships provides a good support network for the challenges as well as the
celebrations and trials of life. Are you leading with the family core value in mind?
Keep leading the Interstates way!
Doug Post